Working through this process gets pretty messy sometimes. Grief, trauma,shame, anger, rage, they all show-up. But as a therapist, its an honor to be along side and support the very difficult task couples have to restore and repair the hurt and pain, and to be trusted with some of their most venerable moments.
The "Blessing" of rings, for this couple was to experience the joy of healing, with the two people that have gotten to know them through the trauma of sex addiction,and help them through this deep and very profound process. They are putting new meaning, writing a new script as they move forward. The stories/couples do not always end as they did. That too, is hard to experience, were human too, you feel for your people, as a therapist....But I am hopeful for this couple as they redefine the present and the future for themselves. It feels good to share the happy moments......thank you couple for trusting me in this blessed moment/